Guys, it’s your turn. Good thing you’ve got a lesbian pal who’s not afraid to get to the (ahem) bottom of all this mystery. You ready?
Dear Shanna, How can I convince my wife that she’ll like anal sex and should try it? We have lube and some good anal sex books, but she still seems skittish. I feel like she’ll love it if she just gives it the old college try. Help! — Anxious for Anal, Broomfield Dear Anxious […]
My girlfriend is obsessed with her cat to the extent that she refused to let me lock her furry friend out of the bedroom while we are going to get down and dirty. This really creeps me out; it’s like the cat is watching us, waiting till we’re done to come and cuddle. I know she’s really connected with her pet, so I’m not sure how to bring it up. Ideas?
Overcome with love in this daydream of mine, she’d throw her arms around my neck, legs bending at the knees as I lifted her triumphantly into the air, and declare her love for me, too. Cheesy, I know, but not to her. In my dreams, I won her heart with Hollywood romance — and extra dessert.
It’s been weeks since the relationship went south and you’re still a mess, bless your heart.
I’m a little worried about how to be intimate with him, since we haven’t been together in a long time, and didn’t develop our relationship at a normal pace. Any thoughts?
Brace for impact: heartbreak likes to get physical.
After a traumatic end of a serious and long-term relationship, I lost pretty much all interest in sex, including masturbation.
“I’ve got a friend who’s known me for years, who assumed I was sexual and asked me a ton of questions about it, having trouble wrapping her brain around the fact that I’m not into sex and I hadn’t been the whole time.”
Dear Shanna, Is it “cheating” if it’s not in-person? I’m talking about cybersex, webcamming, sexting and all that jazz. If someone is not actually touching someone else’s body, but is being sexual in some way that I’ve mentioned, does that make it cheating or not? -Dying for Deliberate Definitions in Thornton Dear Dying for Deliberate […]