Dear Shanna, How can I convince my wife that she’ll like anal sex and should try it? We have lube and some good anal sex books, but she still seems skittish. I feel like she’ll love it if she just gives it the old college try. Help! — Anxious for Anal, Broomfield Dear Anxious […]
My girlfriend is obsessed with her cat to the extent that she refused to let me lock her furry friend out of the bedroom while we are going to get down and dirty. This really creeps me out; it’s like the cat is watching us, waiting till we’re done to come and cuddle. I know she’s really connected with her pet, so I’m not sure how to bring it up. Ideas?
I’m a little worried about how to be intimate with him, since we haven’t been together in a long time, and didn’t develop our relationship at a normal pace. Any thoughts?
After a traumatic end of a serious and long-term relationship, I lost pretty much all interest in sex, including masturbation.
Dear Shanna, Is it “cheating” if it’s not in-person? I’m talking about cybersex, webcamming, sexting and all that jazz. If someone is not actually touching someone else’s body, but is being sexual in some way that I’ve mentioned, does that make it cheating or not? -Dying for Deliberate Definitions in Thornton Dear Dying for Deliberate […]
First let me say that this isn’t just you — hundreds of thousands of people, of all genders and orientations, are in this boat. Our sex drives go up and down throughout our lives.
Shanna answers a letter from someone who has lost their sex drive, and gives advice on getting it back
Taking the time to actually strap-on your toys can be arduous. Luckily, Out Front’s sexpert Shanna Katz offers some solutions.
Dear Shanna — I have two kids ages 7 and 12 from my previous marriage. I’m dating a fabulous woman but I’m not sure when to introduce her to my kids, and what term to introduce her as. Any thoughts? Two Worlds Collide in Lakewood Dear Two Worlds Collide, Congrats on your new partner […]
I want to try some new and different things with my partner of 8 years, but I’m not sure how to bring it up without it seeming unhappy with our current sex life (I’m not).